Lazy sex syndrome is definitely a real thing—and for good reason. In other words: Why reinvent the so-called wheel when you can settle into the oh-so-comfortable spoon position, or revert to the position that always, unfailingly gets you off? First of all, you never know where a different-than-normal sex position might lead—and while an orgasm might be one of the lucky results of trying something new, it could also simply be a tantalizing way to build things up; a strategy to keep things fresh with your partner; or an excuse to appreciate all the awesome things our bodies can do. And some are minor twists on classics that are just a good reminder to try every so often. This one is like vagina-owner-on-top, in heterosexual, cis-gendered couples, except with the genders reversed. Great for partners of all genders and orientations , the absolute 69 is a slight variation on the regular 69 in that one partner is directly on top of the other, facedown. Some sources suggest adding digital penetration to the mix to really take things over the top—assuming your partner is down. Lie down on your back and have your partner grab your legs, holding them out in a V-shaped position while kneeling and thrusting. Feeling tired or lazy?
10 New Sex Positions That Are Really Just Fresh Takes on Your Favorites
Most couples aren't very adventurous in the bedroom. When it comes time to get down in between the sheets, few are bold enough to venture away from traditional standbys like missionary , cowgirl , spooning , doggy style. It doesn't have to be this way. There are plenty of inventive sex positions that can result in better orgasms for you and your partner, and they don't all involve contorting your body into a pretzel. We have a few suggestions—50 of them, to be exact. We know 50 is a lot, but don't be intimidated. Treat this list like a menu. Not every position is going to work for every couple. Just because the Wheelbarrow or Heir to the Throne aren't blowing your minds doesn't mean Gift Wrapped won't do the trick.
So, you're with a naked man or realistically, if you're reading this right now you know you'll be in the same room as a naked man you want to have consensual sex with sometime in the future. But now what? The Amazon sex position? You might be rushing to have sex, but foreplay is super important, not only just for you, but for men as well! Dudes like to feel seduced, too! Think about how sexy you feel when your partner takes their sweet, sweet time soaking up every inch of your body before you have sex. From where to touch, how to touch, what to bring into the bedroom, and what to say, here are 39 downright H-O-T things to try with a nude dude. Do you both have a sexy nurse fantasy or any other hot role-playing idea? Giving your partner a sensual massage can not only build excitement and get you both raring to go, but also helps you get in tune with their body and build comfortability and trust.
Some things in life are better on repeat: Friends , perfectly sunny beach days, your trusty white manicure. Your sexcapades, though? Definitely not one of them. Even the hottest spark in the bedroom needs new sex positions to stoke the flames from time to time—otherwise things get boring, fast. In short, your brain craves newness, and especially for women, your brain is very involved in your excitement and satisfaction. Note: While many of these directions reference male partners, these positions can be assumed by just about anyone. Do It: Near the edge of a bed or bench, rest on the hip and forearm of one side and press your thighs together. Your partner stands and straddles you, entering from behind. Why: Keeping your legs pressed together during this sex position allows for a tighter hold on him as he thrusts.