Skip navigation! Story from Sex. My first image of pegging — as well as prostate play in the context of heterosexual relationships — involved a very binary gender swap. In my imagination, the woman embodied a fierce, dominatrix aesthetic, while the man was bound and helpless. But no matter what we call it, the limited cultural dialogues we have about sex still assume that it is defined by a penis entering a vagina. This homophobic notion hinders some straight cis men from trying out butt stuff.
Ejaculatory or ‘standard’ orgasm
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It helps propel semen from the penis. Helping someone achieve one of these mind-blowing orgasms is pretty awesome, too. The prostate is located about two inches inside the rectum , between the rectum and the penis. Although entering through the anus is the most direct way, you can also stimulate the prostate indirectly through the perineum, or taint. The perineum is firmer near the front of the penile bulb, which is the inner ending of the shaft. You may not be able to actually feel the gland, but touching it will likely cause the sensation of needing to pee. It feels like a fleshy bulb of tissue on the front wall of the rectal lining.
What is the prostate?
Society is good at visually appreciating butts and writing catchy songs about butts, but still not so great at understanding how we might derive physical pleasure from our own butts—especially when it comes to the prostate. With that in mind, I asked Lewis and sex and relationships advisor Lianne Young to give some tips on how you can give your partner a prostate orgasm. Medically speaking, the prostate produces a fluid that mixes with sperm to create semen. So if you stimulate the prostate gland, it kind of speeds up that process and makes it more pleasurable. Technically, everyone!
Most people are familiar with a standard ejaculation during sex or while masturbating, but there are other options to try — some of which could intensify your experience. Get comfortable and settle in for some educational fun that could boost your orgasm game, with top tips from Annabelle Knight, sex and relationships expert at the sex toy website, Lovehoney , on how you can get yourself off. Are you a woman?