It has nothing to do with their career. Just let things keep going. I have my own profession and my own interests, and was definitely not pursuing a doctor for intimate partnership, but I quickly realized that my environment started seeing me as only girlfriend of Dr. It CAN work, to be frank. It's so sad to think that people so young will be stuck wearing 19th century undies when they should enjoy their years of being young and stylish. We had lots of sex and fun. She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. To answer your question: Even when he does, everything is on his terms.
My husband is midway throug his first year of cardiology fellowship and we have been having a tough time lately. I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy. BUT it could easily have gone the other way.
Thanks for sharing your story. There will always be difference between spouses. I felt like I was 'on call' for when he would be available to see me. I have already been told I will "lose" to medicine if I put pressure on him. Dating is a tricky game. She is probably thinking she can convert you if she is with you long enough and is a good enough example. I tried telling him that I know myself enough that I would not be happy in this kind of relationship. Listen to the still small voiceв.
My husband's simply daily things, like grocery shopping, cooking, waking up with me to make coffee in the morning-are far from unnoticed. She's a wonderful person and I think we could work, so yes. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands.