There is no way this will work out. But there are many people on here who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free. This can be a good way to learn more about your personalities. Anyway, you got yourself a treasure. For girls, being the right age for marriage usually means graduating high school, if not later. She was so sad over what she sacrificed it just haunted everyone on Reddit.
Marriage does weird things to Mormons You're correct, that he should ask her these things would you marry a non Mormon. We decided early on that having only one working parent was critical -- I am always the one that flexes to his schedule like it or notand staying home with our child enables me to do that. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. Want to add to the discussion.
So you made a wise decision. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. I've started dating this girl a few months ago, but it's only now that it dawned on me how hard it is to date with her crazy work schedule. As someone born and raised in the church this has been very difficult to moderate and there is some social pressure to become more involved. Early in our relationship, I gave some thought to the question of whether I would ever be willing to marry a non-Mormon. It is always a nice idea to plan for your date in advance. Ladies, doctor's are definitely not all they're cracked up to be. How do you maintain a healthy balance with relationships and work when your partner has a more demanding profession than you.
It has worked and my children are very protective of their father. I also definitely don't want her raising my future children, though, and I'll be very clear about that. I've luckily broken down my GF's defenses about the church a little bit. I would find it therapeutic to type out all of my feelings and at the same time he would get an update.