Also, I want to be fully supportive of his dreams and what he wants to become. I'll paste a URL with links to all of them at the end of this message. If you are dating a Mormon girl, then always wear a good shirt, jeans or pants, and avoid T-shirts with offensive wording or graphics. While there are some differences noted here, in many ways you should treat them the same way you would girls of other faiths. Hence the suspicious quotes around "adequately. You have to have very thick skin to stay in it. Good luck to you. And by joining I mean become just as fanatic in it as she is All her life she's been taught that she needs to be married in a Mormon temple Wife left when I came out If her family are all Traditional Believing Mormons, they will try to convert you. It's gonna end regardless not trying to be a dick, but that is what is going to happen eventuallyso be smart and cut your losses before it gets harder.
I'm not a doctors wife - im a doctors GF - but I expect that to change soon. I dated non mormon men. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful.
Also, I want to be fully supportive of his dreams and what he wants to become. Unfortunately, it does not get easier, just different. This isn't what I expected. And, whether she knows it or not she probably does know it but is in denialshe probably sees you as her ticket out of Oldmaidsville. I can handle a lot of daily mindless, nonverbal things, like cuddling for a bit before bed, but phone calls and even texting can be exhausting in a way that is very difficult to explain. Like, she thought that serving would remedy her of any doubts or testimony issues. She went ahead a married a non member. As an atheist with Buddhist undertones who married a non-practicing, god-believing Mormon at the height of his questioning, I find this so interesting to me.
Found this blog just now after searching "married to a surgeon". Also don't ask questions that are too intrusive, or those that you would not like to answer yourself. Dude just to summarize what I think is the majority of the comments. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. No one could compare to the man I married. Yes I am married to a doctor also after being married for 5 yrs he decided to become a trama surgeon. We see each other about once every ten days, or times a week at most when his schedule is lighter. It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. These are things your wife may consider matter-of-fact and you may be surprised by if you don't discuss them now.