She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc. Make sure everyone involved is a couple, or at least is paired with someone. Being married and raising a family can be very difficult if the two of you disagree about important issues like religion. At best they just try to include you in the community, and at worst you are constantly told that you'll be welcome "when you're ready. If your date has been an active member of the Church who is following these moral guidelines, then she will not be willing to involve herself in a sexual relationship with you. Maybe about a year ago. Welcome to the future. He's now in his 3rd year of a 4 year residency program and is hoping to do a 2 year fellowship next. It really can be that simple.
You will always be second place. I am so in love with him and he says he is too minus the stupid cheating. That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here.
Men and women must be willing to accept what they know to be true. I mean, I get where it comes from but it's so ridiculous. Racial differences can be very trivialвthey really didn't come up much for my parents, for exampleвand are basically false differences.
This opens opportunities for all strong and successful masculine men to gain access to these women. I was so incredibly supportive of him and his career. As a man who married a non-Mormon woman, my story has a slightly different view point, but it comes down to essentially the same principles. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. We have 2 school age children. And what is even worse, is to think of him alone in our house Christmas Day while I work a 24 hr in-house call shift.