Ask the average red-hot-blooded husband which sex move he doesn't like and you just may grow cobwebs while he racks his brain. Uh-huh: Guys love sex. And probably -- on second thought, let's make that definitely -- what you're already doing to your man is making him very happy, not to mention very horny. Still, every guy still has one special thing that tops his list of all-time-favorite lusty treats. It may be a specific move, a position, something you whisper in his ear Whatever his deepest desire is, you want to discover it so you can treat your man to rafter-shaking sex and elevate your good love life to cloud-nine divine. We're here to help. We figured the best way to learn the specific bedroom tricks that make men melt was to get them straight from the source. So we persuaded a slew of guys to confess their most secret sexual cravings.
At least that's what one study shows. So I did a little research of my own to find out why.
Sometimes, wearing all the hats that being a new dad requires, can make you forget one thing: Your wife finds you very sexy. And being a father, while it can sometimes make you feel a bit lamer than you were in your kid-less youth, amps up that sex appeal. From changing diapers with gusto to singing to their baby to just accepting their gray hair, there are a lot of under-the-radar things you might not realize you do that your partner finds irresistible. At all. Now, he regularly sings to our 6-month-old daughter to make her smile or to calm her down. He was never sexier to me than the days he painted the inside of our remodeled home just days before I had our second child. We have two who are 4 and 5, plus a 7-month-old. Watching my husband joke around with them — especially the older ones — just melts my heart.
Check out the findings of a survey of married couples -- including that 40 percent of respondents think their spouse has selective listening, and less than half feel their spouse is supportive of their goals and dreams ouch -- and you'll find this little nugget:. Fifty-seven percent of married men think their wives are sexy, but only 38 percent of married women think their husbands are sexy. Sure, time has its way with all of us, but still, why such a difference between the two results?
I am so excited to share a guest post with you all today. Finding and understanding those differences are the first step to having and maintaining healthy, passionate, and incredibly fulfilling sex life. Make sense so far? You made it through! I know, I know, us guys are a little weird.