This happened to me, and it took me forever to get out of the cult. It had nothing to do with our relationship and so much to do with the pressures and demands of his work. What would your relationship look like if you were to marry. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Fellowship was worse and now that my doc has been an attending for 2 years, it is worse than it has ever been. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands. Blogroll By Common Consent C. I don't think we are going to end up being friends but I'll get over that.
I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. I made the decision not to have those things when I married a non-member. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps. We decided early on that having only one working parent was critical -- I am always the one that flexes to his schedule like it or notand staying home with our child enables me to do that. He performs multiple interventional cardiac procedures and saves many lives daily. Do you masturbate, ever.
You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. Their perspective gives you an idea of how important your role as wife and mother is to the success of the family of a doctor's wife. Whenever you bring something up, they'll say if it's not on lds. The intrusion into my life of an apparently irrational belief that was immune to my influence would have been felt more keenly every year. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother. I've learned that when I need attention, it's best to ask for it rather than wasting time acting sad or frustrated. He feels obligated so often and wants to be a nice guy I don't think he even realizes how he hurts me when he so often chooses work.
Break up with her. Over the years, it would have felt increasingly burdensome to accommodate practices that seemed to me like superstition. There are billions of other girls out there who I wouldn't have issues like this with. For me, one of those bouncers is my marriage to the most wonderful woman alive. She will be surprised that a non-Mormon holds the same values she does and respect you. You will have to make sacrifice your happiness a little. Even Mormon girls who marry non-Mormons want great dads for their kids, and they are oriented to having kids, sometimes many kids.