Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else. Men and women must be willing to accept what they know to be true. A lot of Mormons escape that pitfall and can put people first. While I miss talking to him, I also would prefer the nonverbal stuff sometimes too. That is a hard truth. Toxic is the right word. No one knows your situation the way you do. But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy.
She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. Jack is right about the demographics. I worry it will only be worse when the kids grow older. I had to lobby and cry alot so I could bring my dog up, I am not sure how that will go because dogs have hair, need to go out, and the house might get messed up.
I constantly have to reprioritize my kid, work, other activities. Much better to marry in the faith if possible. I can pray for and with my youngest daughter and bless her thru prayer. For reference we're both in our mids.
No doubt that all rightetous persons will accept Christ but not everyone that dies will be righteous. If you were the one who did the asking, it is simply chivalrous and gentlemanly for you to pay for dinner, the movie, or whatever else you do. He just started studying for the boards. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. He doesn't even think he works that much even though he sleeps 5 hours a night when he sleeps at all. I am struggling to find an answer to this question for several reasons. How do you really feel about that.