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Ask her right out if she is at all interested in leaving TSCC. Hey Guys- I as well married a female Doc. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. I get it; I just don't buy into it. Many, many lapsed Mormons catch the true vision of the gospel at some time in their lives and desire to repent and become observant again. I went to BYU. How church discipline works.
But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. Honestly, it isn't her fault. That would only encourage her to give up other standards that really are serious and to become like the typical Western degenerate. It sucks but ultimately what Mormonism does to people is it makes them value adherence to church more than their relationships with people. I've told people money doesn't buy love. That's a really sad story. No drama-inducing crossposting of content found in other subreddits, or vice versa.