We met after he finished his residency and started working as an ER director. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless. About eight years ago, I dated a Radiology resident and I vaguely remember it being intense, but this rises to a whole new level. It's gonna end regardless not trying to be a dick, but that is what is going to happen eventuallyso be smart and cut your losses before it gets harder. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat. I do wonder if you ask this blog just to get supporting advice. She was a mormon and he finally joined the church at For 40 years there was a disconnect and she really viewed him as a lesser person cause he wasn't a member. But there also are alot of committed hardworking men who take on a hard job and do their best to juggle work and family.
The sons inevitably went inactive later in life. He is truly my soulmate and I shudder to think that if I had not chosen to marry outside of the church, I would not have had this life with him. Lack of motivation and endless loneliness that has caused me to be a lazy 15 pounds heavier woman. Patriarchal leadership is something that most women in the world valued until recently, but it is still a chief value with Mormons. To not do residency and leave medicine behind. I'm afraid he's going to be more in love with work than me and a family. Another simple and doable option is to go online; there are many LDS dating sites where you can sign up and meet new and interesting people. Thank you for pointing this out.
And don't fall for all their talk of being open and welcoming. Aw, glad I can help. You know what the official line of the church is, and what bishops and stake presidents are likely to say. And there are questions and lessons that dual-faith couples face that zero-faith or single-faith households do not. Vh65, your marriage is a black swan. It is soooo difficult to cope. Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses. Also, we haven't practiced polygamy for over years. She is extremely busy and tired almost all the time. If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away.
Dating a mormon girl. To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice. Do you see yourself being with him for many years. She may have served a mission as an ultimatum to herself. We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended. She may never join the join the church.