A clitoris is more like a penis than you realize. So guess what? You should be paying way more attention to that area than you have been. Let her hear your voice. Let her feel your hands trail over her skin. Let her smell your cologne.
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It's well known that boys going through puberty will often experience "wet dreams", but did you know it can happen to women too? It causes an increase of blood flow to your lady bits, and that combined with the total relaxation that comes with being fast asleep, allows your body to reach climax with no added help. But while sleep orgasms are out of your control, there are seven different types that blokes can treat their partners to. Here sexpert Dr Pam Spurr reveals how to drive your lover wild So he can try the 'come here' technique - slipping his index finger inside your vagina, to stroke that area in a 'come here' fashion. Or during foreplay try one of the many G-spot vibrators that are available, for some thrilling sensations. Not only due to the nerve endings in the anal passage getting stimulated, but that stimulation also sets off stimulation in the vagina. Or you might get turned on by the intense intimacy of him giving anal pleasure with his fingers or tongue. Always use safer sex techniques like placing strong cling film or a dental dam over the anal passage before he uses his tongue. Some women find the area at the opening of the vagina, around the urethra opening, highly sensitive.
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On my washing machine, there is a lock. To activate it, you must hold down the start button for a particular length of time at just the right intensity; too soft and nothing happens, too hard and the machine beeps angrily at you. Finally, an entangled heap of damp but refreshed clothes tumbles out at the other end. Consider now the female orgasm. Pressed or caressed the right way, a woman can be transported to such ecstasy, that for a few seconds, the rest of the world ceases to exist.
The time has come for women to close the orgasm gap. Research shows that straight women statistically get off less than any other demographic, including lesbians. Clitoral stimulation is a must for 36 percent of women, according to a recent Indiana University study conducted in partnership with OMGYes. See what they had to say below. Responses have been edited and condensed for clarity. I own a really nice Rabbit, but I find myself just turning to my hand whenever I need to.