Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. Learn from Experienced Professionals. They require a healthy dose of flexibility, nontraditional expectations, and teamwork You aren't always gonna have a Christmas etc I can understand it would be hard to understand the cues you are getting if you have no basis for that lifestyle, but really think it over. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. I believe when you die, you die, and you live on in memories and hearts. I felt her fear, everything she's said, I said. I am a soon-to-be Surgeon's wife and my boyfriend and I have started discussing the changes that are going to happen when he enters his residency. And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true.
At that point we quit going and focused on her goals and family bonding. Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. One of the most well known church prophets stated that he would rather see his own child dead in their coffin than married outside the temple. Jan 10, 0. If she doesn't care that you aren't a member now, if your relationship goes on long enough, she is going to care eventually. It's a less common occurrence, but it happens. I am married to an ongologist for 16years. I do realize he may want me to be not so ambituous which I am. He should tell her that he will never convert, and that if she will not be happy unless he does, the relationship should end.
I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot. The woman I have feelings for is conflicted on her religion in regards to me. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here. Hi Op, I wouldn't worry about the lack of constant contact too much. She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. You are brave and good people and seem to be raising wonderful children who will be lights for everyone with whom they come in contact. I get looking ahead, but it seems like you are very unhappy with the way things are now. In five short days. I think one has to become somewhat vulnerable and broken to truly experience the best side of happy- and he will not, and can not allow that to happen.
Though my mother never openly complained about this, I could see it in her eyes. There are so many potential problems they would fill a book. And Mormons were basically encouraged to marry other mormons. If He can answer prayers to help you find missing car keys, He surely can help you understand who it is that you should marry. After reading all these comments I now know that life will be even harder when he will be in residency My boyfriend and I are getting engaged next month. My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her.