I have a tendency to be overly sensative emotionally and the trauma of being forced to choose between someone I love and want to spend the rest of my with and Eternal Mormon Celestial Salvation caused me extensive emotional damage that I have struggled with ever since. Your opportunities may not. My dad was in the bishopric for most of my childhood, and I was never the person you describe here.
The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion. Doctors are gift of God but when u marry, family too is important. He is on call ALL the time, he arrives home 9 pm and barely sit down for diner and then gets called away, then again 2 am heart attack. I miss my husband dearly. She is showing a common attitude of distrust for "anti-mormon" material. No walking your daughter down the aisle, no giving your daughter away at the alter, nothing but you standing outside the temple waiting till it's over. This can make it harder for you two to do things together. Mixed races, however, are NOT tied into opposing beliefs and mixed races don't try to "convert" each other. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up.
I don't know if I can do it or if I want to. I grew away from mine as my husband then-boyfriend slowly grew closer to his Mormon faith. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons. Mormons observe the Sabbath closely, so Sundays are for attending church meetings and focusing on their spirituality.
We Finally spent a week alone together for our anniversary and it was glorious. You will join the church. It's the sort of super dismissive "all women are the same" attitude that I learned in church and left to get away from. And as an anonymous comment put it, date night is sometimes out of the question because he is using his "free" time as catch up on sleep time. Ask her on dates. Move on, but after thanksgiving. The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately.