Hi, yes, your daily PSA: Stop catering to men's needs as if yours don't matter. Especially in the bedroom. As women channeling major Lizzo energy, it's just as important to seek your own pleasure as it is your partners. We good? Here are 21 things men may be into the bedroom, per relationship and sex experts:. Men are verrrry much visual learners. Show him, literally with your hands, how you like it. Sexy role play tip: Lay on the bed and touch yourself while you order him to look but not touch. A sexy, easy way to show and tell.
6. He wants you to initiate sometimes.
Before we get going, I have a few misunderstandings about truly pleasing your man in bed that need addressing…. Firstly, you must understand that there is no one, perfect technique. There is no magic pill. Another misunderstanding that trips up many women when figuring out how to pleasure your man is thinking that all men are the same. Both you and I know that everyone is different. We all have different kinks, fantasies and peculiarities. Some guys love nothing more than to eat your ass for hours, while others would wretch at the thought. Lastly, and most importantly, is understanding that great sex is a two way street. Although hard to plan, spontaneous sex is not only incredibly exciting and fun, it can leave you with some of the best memories to return to when you find yourself alone. Spontaneous sex is hard to plan the name should be a giveaway.
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What impresses a guy most in bed? Surprisingly or maybe not so, guys do have a reputation for being lazy , most confessed that they're not all that interested in theatrics or trapeze acts. In fact, many men told us that they're simple creatures who basically just want their wives to show up. But if you're looking to give him something extra-special, they'd love a little bit of this. You may be worried about what your husband thinks of your post-breast-feeding boobs, your C-section scar, or that at some point, he'll stop being attracted to you because you look a little — OK, a lot—different than you did on your wedding day. But men rarely notice your self-perceived flaws — they only become aware of them if you're preoccupied with them or go out of your way to cover up. We're validated by how happy we can make you in bed, and that's what we're focused on—not on how much you may have changed.
My discreet newsletter will teach you the 5 most dangerous sex mistakes you are making and how to start properly pleasuring your man. Click here to get it. Simple: initiate sex. It can make him feel more desired [ 4 ]. Trust me; it will definitely please him. You might wind up having more sex too, which most guys will absolutely love. Men associate more frequent sex with greater satisfaction [ 5 ]. If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually addicted to you, then you'll find them in my private and discreet newsletter. Get it here.